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I was the Facilitator for the first New York City cohort, and at the time, I was working in theological education on Christian leadership formation, so it seemed like a natural fit. What I discovered, though, was something quite different from my “day job.” While the content and topics of the curriculum was a crucial part of our gatherings, it was the community of mutual care and support that made the content relevant, not the other way around. And second, having three years of strong bonding created an extraordinarily resilient community that, in turn, was able to build up resilience in our leaders. I think every member of my cohort went through significant seasons of both joy and heartache, professionally and vocationally, during our time. And the cohort, in turn, lived out the exhortation of Romans 12:15, “rejoice with those who rejoice; weep with those who weep,” with a depth and integrity that I have rarely experienced, and often doing both in the same gathering. It was a privilege and a blessing to me and my own faith and ministry to be their facilitator, and I am eternally grateful to the Ministry Collaborative for calling me to that work!”
Alexandra Nelson
Posted at 16:34h, 24 OctoberTelling people who are struggling with a mental health disorder such as anxiety ” do not be afraid” isn’t helpful. And if you are going to quote “do not be afraid” – at least use it in appropriate biblical context, Neither is comparing their fear to the Israelites’ lack of faith. Anxiety isn’t simply a failure to trust God or a choice to remain in what’s familiar. It’s a complex psychological and physiological experience that people often cannot control through willpower or faith alone. People struggling with anxiety don’t need to be reminded of what they shouldn’t feel. They need compassion, understanding, and practical support without the implication that their distress reflects a spiritual failure. I think the guest therapist understood this, but I’m not sure the moderators did. Maybe it’s time we learn how to speak “nervous system” language with “faith language” in our churches.